What is a need? Walking over boundaries. Oh my…..

I was speaking of being a child and as I am watching them as they first come to our plane of existence here.

They have so much to learn. Then when they get a Parent instead of a Guardian. You can see it everywhere with so many Mothers and Fathers.

When you go into a grocery store and a child is crying. All because it was the parents need to bring them with.

Lets talk about needs. Ours and others. Walking over boundaries everywhere here.

Well, as a previous mother, meaning I have all adult children now; I am mother only in title now. (Except for my three dogs.) Any way, I sure had to learn to stand in just my needs. Not do things just because this little person says they would like something.

I know I am opening a can of worms here. I am going to be tripping a lot of triggers in a lot of people. Well, that shows that very few of us know how to stand in our own needs.

There should be not one person getting  mad about those last few words that I just wrote.

If  and when we learn to fill our own needs we will not be expecting others to do it for us.

Can you just imagine what that would mean to this place we call Earth. Well, we would not have a reason to fear, or hate, or begrudge, or feel shame,or ,or, or. I hope you are understanding where I am going with this.

So, lets see if we can scratch the surface. Of filling our own needs. I am calling a need any thing that I need to make my self feel happy. That encompasses all things just for me.

My greatest challenge when this thought first came to me, was how do I take care of my family and still fill my needs. How do I get it through to every one I was dealing with, ” do not use guilt and obligation on me” or for me to use it on someone else to get what I wanted. This is one of those circle things I was talking about before. That first Law of the Universe.

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