When we come to a place where we desire to begin in a new place, how do we go about using the proper tools that will change our lives? How do we learn the truth about how we became who we are and let go of what we used to use as our identity of self? I think these questions are the ones most asked of me. Not right away of course, because when someone comes to me they are at the end of their hopes.
So, we are working at a critical space and must work to get them just to breathe without fear. Once I get them to a space where they can again think, we then begin the process of learning tools that help with the choices that we must make for ourselves every day.
We, must make the choice to be happy, to stand in our very own boundaries and know that our doing so is not letting someone else down.
We must stay focused on what our dreams and needs are. In the beginning we have to remind ourselves at least 150,000 times a day. We must remind ourselves that our needs are, and must be, our prime focus.
Remind yourself by asking, “without me, what is there?”
We learn it is not about being in battle to have the right to have our needs met. It is about accepting this within yourself. Once you have accomplished this point, you will see that all others are treating you so differently .
I hear daily, “but that is not going to happen, because so and so is not working on changing.”
I quietly repeat over and over, it is not about changing anyone else. This work is about changing how you feel about yourself. Once the change takes hold from within, your life will begin to change dramatically outside.
I know it does not seem possible, but, I must say I have seen it time and time again. If you give over all your thoughts, words and deeds to be about the needs and desires for you and only you, then magic shall happen in your life
Do you believe it possible? I am waiting to hear from you.
have a wonderful day and into the evening tide.