How do you ask a question of someone else when the subject is very near and dear to you? I am talking about those questions that affect how your little girl or boy get triggered and want to make you scream and yell and even at times cry. Well I hope you know me well enough by now that of course I am going to go into the spiritual side of this question.
Okay, you have just made some choices and you were in the mindset of ‘I am going to teach this person finally how to really communicate with me.’ You are in such excitement you do not think about anything except the joy that this one person that you have chosen must see you for who you are. You are so excited that you can hardly contain yourself. You have done it, you have learned how to stand in your boundaries with this person you have deemed as the one that can validate you and when they see the light of your font of wisdom you will know you have finally made your mark. Continue reading
It is very important to see how often you deflect yourself from truly hearing your inner truths. When it seems that conflict is coming at you the first thing you can do to defuse the situation is to, with all sincerity, ask a question. Yes, you read that correctly. It is not about defending yourself. Let me tell you why. You will always know when you are sitting in the Universal truth. The reason why is that everyone on this planet will know the minute they hear truth. So remember, if you are being questioned at all it is because you have asked for the understanding of what it is that is on your mind .
Where do you think it goes? Why do you push away from yourself the very information that would set you free? Yes you, as we all do, have those thoughts in your head that say, “Oh I shouldn’t feel like this” and what do you do… you then shove the feeling away from yourself. Giving yourself all kinds of practical reasons why you should not feel the way you do.
In my last blog post I was beginning to talk about compartmentalizing your painful emotions, and not recognizing when a true Guardian came to you to help you through the story you were beginning to write that was going to steer you down the wrong path .
As I have been contemplating and listening to other’s talk I have noticed that for some reason, when we retell a life story, we seem to want to embellish the retelling. Yet when you tell the story, and you embellish the story, you are not only changing the vibration of the story, you are rewriting your history.
When one walks forward and it feels as though the path you have chosen is lonely, how do you know you are walking for your own good? Well, that is how. I know, that sounds silly. Yet think about it. You have created a mathematical equation; in that equation you have mapped out certain experiences so your soul could grow in it’s understandings. You did not map it out for your friends and family. See where this is going?
I have been working with some small gatherings and a lot of the questions that arise are really about how to have faith in yourself. How do you know which voice is the right voice to listen to? People worry about listening to the ‘wrong’ voice.
Why does a new person in your life make you feel so wonderful? The whole reason that new people can come into your life is because within that process of being you, you are making conscious choices to have change in your life.