So, how are you doing with your positive thoughts? When you refuse to deal with the real life issues that are going on in your life you might discover that “positive thoughts” alone don’t change anything. Yes, one of the main reasons that you always feel that no one can hear you, or understand you, is because even though you use terms of peace and harmony, you smile and try and help all around on the outside… you’re cringing inside.
Once I began to realize that I made the hole that my heart fell into; that pain so deep I could not breathe was of my own making, I had to take a deep breath and feel the hurt. I had to be willing to talk about that hurt. I had to be willing to open my heart once again to love. To a love that was just for me. Did I fall down? Yes, I did several times. Yet, I never gave up on myself again. I did get mad at myself for falling down. Continue reading
This is something that at a certain point of working with the understanding of responsibility and accountability, everyone comes and asks me about.
It is a time when my clients and students have been with me for a while and they are learning how to begin to fill their own needs. They are taking the responsibility of seeing their needs and filling them. Yet they have not quite understood how to let go of the idea that the other person showing up around an issue in their life is not stepping up also. Continue reading
When I first started many, many years ago now, I started working with dreams and I interpreted them for people.
There are Universal symbols and those that Doctors and psychologists use and I am not going to get into that sort of thing. What I am going to get into is that you should begin your own dictionary of symbols. Why? Well, because there are so many interpretations out there. Continue reading
Until we learn the Universal Truths, and what that means, we must look at the fact that our truths change.
As we go out into the world, the work place, the places that we socialize, if we do not take into account that our beliefs are going to be challenged, and so they should, then we start blending and jumbling up our truths.
We begin not seeing what we should have let go of and what we should keep. Continue reading
In my last blog I was talking about detaching from another persons frame of reference as well as our own. So, I would like to continue there. It is possible to be very happy with the world around you no matter what the life experience is with the people that you share your life with. Yes, it is! Continue reading
As small children we made choices to do things. Depending on the reaction of those around us, we chose if we were going to do it again.
Then there were those well-meaning parents that could not see that a small being could and had made a life choice for themselves. Continue reading