It is time to stop and listen to each and every word you are using

words-oliverwendellholmessrWhat questions should you ask yourself when you realize that you were sharing in the truth and then that darn little boy/girl starts talking for you? How often do you see that a normal quiet conversation with a person or persons that you care for ends up dissolving into a mess that you now have to clean up? Continue reading

Pull away from the social consciousness

pull away from the social consciousnessLearning to communicate with yourself can be truly the hardest thing you ever do. There are many pitfalls along the way as you begin to pull away from the social consciousness that has been a part of your life up to this date. You are asking questions that as you ask those around you are not making your heart feel at peace. You must always remember that the truth is held within your heart.

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Know that you are a great liar

Knowing that you are a great liarOkay, I know I have been spending a lot of time writing about talking to yourself and truly communicating with yourself. Understand that it is very easy to slip into talking to yourself rather than truly communicating. It is not easy to break old habits and beliefs about the truth of this world that we live in.

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Finding Truth – Beginning the Process

begin_processHere are a few questions that you can begin using for yourself to start the process of learning how you have been making choices without taking the time to evaluate why you would make the choice you are considering.

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Express to yourself what your needs are

accept responsibilityI am spending a lot of time on the concepts talking to one’s self vs the true form of communications with one’s self. I know you use words that formulate into sentences and you then use these sentences as a form of talking with those around you. Do you get frustrated when those around you either did not hear your talking or they did not understand what you were expressing to them, which then ended up having a misunderstanding between you and them?

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What are you telling yourself?

the-worst-lies-are-the-ones-you-tell-yourself1I have spent the last couple of weeks talking about the difference between talking and communicating; sharing many facets of how you talk to fill space in the air around you vs really having a communication with others which in turn is the process of allowing yourselves to hear the thoughts that are going on within your own minds.

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Learn the skills to communicate with yourself

Quotation-Charlie-Kaufman-communication-talking-Meetville-Quotes-266159What is the art of communication? So many of you are telling me no one hears you, you talk and talk and share you intimate feelings and yet you are not being heard. Well, I have a question for you… What is talking and what is communicating? They are two totally different things. Is is possible that all you do is talk and not really communicate your real feelings and emotions?

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When to Walk Away

Ahhh…. that first bloom of love. The one that was so intense that it just rocked your world. Well, you can feel this for yourself when you begin to stand up for yourself in the quiet way of the simple truth that you really do get to. That you do not have to fight your way out of anything .

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