One of the hardest parts of learning to have the truth that ‘Self is Necessary’ work in your life, is knowing how to let go of the guilt and obligation that the whole world wants to put at your doorstep. At least that is how it is perceived by each of us in the very beginning. That does change once you take a look at why your internal emotions allow that to be your story.
Why do you go to someone else to try and get yourself out of trouble? Or worse yet, lot’s of ‘you’s’ trying to get someone else to get a person out of trouble. Let me try and explain: I have been watching how when someone makes a mistake they seem to go to someone else to try to get them out of the mess they are in. Have you noticed this?
When we begin to look for the story that we have been telling, one of the things that I personally learned to do, even if I did not like the beginning of the feeling for myself, is to find a group of people who I could trust. Trust because you will need them to have the strength to challenge you in a way that allows you to break through the hurt emotions that have become the very fabric of your story.
This is a question I have spent much time on. By the time most people come to this question in their lives all holy heck is breaking loose in it. So what do we do?
I would begin with first by asking you to try understanding and feeling truly who and why you are you.
I always suggest to my students and clients that first and foremost you must come to know SELF.
We can only start from ground zero. Which is the core of your being. Continue reading
Now we are working on being in balance, yet we are seeing that we have created a lot of turmoil in our lives as well as in others lives. We are beginning to understand that to stand in the truth does not always mean what we have been using as a story in our truth.
I have spent much time looking at what I call stories of my life. I have listened to others as they tell the stories that we have experienced together. I have come to an understanding that the truth may have nothing to do with what is happening. Continue reading
Why would we not want to tell ourselves the truth? I think we would all most emphatically say, “Of course we want the truth!” Yet I have seen time and time again, when given a choice in the beginning of the introduction of self accountability and responsibility, we choose to believe in the lie; the story that we have told ourselves about our life. Wow! This blew me away when I first started teaching!
When you think you are going along fine and then you hear from a friend that they no longer want to participate with you what do you do?
Do you give them the respect of ok, you have that right, and go on.
Do you bother them further for an explanation?
What is the method that we should walk through so our heart does not hurt any more because of the empty feeling that seems to be left there in our heart? Continue reading
How would you change your life? Are you willing to look at your life and really let go of the story that has made you sad? Are you ready to take just one small step and see where it has brought you? Not look ahead where it could take you, but simply where you are after just one small step. This is the very way to change your life right this very moment. Do you have the courage to do this simple task? Continue reading