When you are learning to stand up for the new walk that you are taking what do you do when you find that those around you are now using your vulnerability as you learn to share the deeper parts of who you are?
How do you ask a question of someone else when the subject is very near and dear to you? I am talking about those questions that affect how your little girl or boy get triggered and want to make you scream and yell and even at times cry. Well I hope you know me well enough by now that of course I am going to go into the spiritual side of this question.
I would like to talk about learned behaviors. These are behaviors that you learned that were meant to serve as a temporary safety net but you lost sight of that. So now we need to talk about how easily you can deflect yourself from finding out the learned behaviors that are now keeping you from standing in your responsibilities and the accountabilities of making the changes to your thoughts and feelings and learning how to use your emotions as the very tool that will change your life.
Let’s look at a question that will lead you to the discovery of the internal you. Why are you on this quest? When I ask the question and use the term ‘quest’ it is not to have you walk into a fantasy world like Dungeon and Dragon’s, it is for you to begin to look at the truth that this walk to Universal Truth is not just to fix your hurt emotions that you have been storing up since you can remember.
I have had a lot of conversations about when you are learning to be in the Universal truth, and how do you stand up for yourself and not fall victim to your emotions and learned behaviors? These are outstanding questions and ones that each and everyone of us that lives on this planet really must learn and understand. It also brings up the question of compromise. How here it means one gets less than the other.
The art of communication to Self, wow this is the most wonderful and you would think easy thing to do but I am here writing about this subject because you have become a master at the art of deception.
The greatest form of communication is the communication you have with yourself. .As I have gone through learning about expressing myself so that you can understand and feel and then incorporate what I am writing into practical uses just for your own sense of peace and freedom, I have spent many hours in contemplation on how do you and I learn how to see, walk, and speak in the Universal Truth. And of course I came to the understanding of this is all and has always been for the sense of knowing and loving self.
Okay, so now I am saying you are lying, your are lying to your friends, your family, your closest loved ones. Are you blooming mad yet? You should be, you should be mad enough now that come hell or high water you are going to find the truth for you! The truth that sets your heart free from the turmoil that you find yourself in from time to time. Because that is your clue, my sweet and wonderful friend.
Why does it seem when you think you have a handle on your life, you have a direction and you feel good about the direction you are going and the choices that you are making, you wake up one day and all holy hell has broken loose in your life?!?