How you stand in your spirit within this physical expression

shinebright1In class last night we spoke about how we walk and talk in spirit and forfeit are inner self when we look like we are making decisions that may not be popular with those around us, yet we know that it is the very best for everyone that is involved. How often do you find yourself knowing that something is totally right for you yet you do not follow through with it because of how you think others are going to feel about your choice?

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The only way you can feel your value

Abe-on valueSo you are beginning to walk in this new understanding that you are and have always been totally and completely in charge by the choices that you make for your life. Have you let that course through your veins? Have you taken the time, given yourself the opportunity to let that feeling of being the one and only person to make your choices only for you?

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Stop Defending Your Choices

crossroadWhat makes it so hard for you to make a different choice? One of the things I see most is people saying they really desire change, yet they do not want to change the choices they are making.

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Writing a New Story of YOU

One of the hardest parts of learning to have the truth that ‘Self is Necessary’ work in your life, is knowing how to let go of the guilt and obligation that the whole world wants to put at your doorstep. At least that is how it is perceived by each of us in the very beginning. That does change once you take a look at why your internal emotions allow that to be your story.

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What is the #1 lie we tell ourselves?

When we are working on changing ourselves so that we can truly be happy, we must begin by looking at ourselves and where we sit in our opinions and beliefs. Before we go anywhere else we must look at the truth of the beliefs and opinions we currently hold.

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Self gratification takes others to feel FOR you, Filling Your Needs is an Internal Process.

Self gratification is different from filling your own needs. The first has an outcome that depends on others to have it done for you, where truly filling your needs is an internal process first; Which then allows the internal guidance to lead us to take the steps which will have the fulfillment of our need created. It is done in such a way that each of us knows just how we had our needs fulfillment brought to us… for us… by us.

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Are we walking with no concern for others?

We make agreements, we set up parameters. So you find yourself in a spot where no one around you sees the need for the original boundaries and parameters.

You have already taken the time to re-establish them. Then as soon as you stop participation with the parameter it goes right back to non-compliance.

What would you do? What makes one individual more aware of the parameter than others? Why would you be told that to stand in the true parameter is not the neighborly way?

Whenever I start something new, I like to find out just how to play the game. Not short cuts, or the easy way. Just the way that gets you to your goal. A goal that I can be proud to say I participated with the whole.

So, what do you do if you find yourself in a game that was established before you came in. Yet, rules and regulations even documents were created to play in this game.

So, everything is spelled out for everyone that later comes into the game. Yet, when those rules and regulations are brought back out into the light even the beginning game players do not want to play that way. What are you as an individual to do?

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What is so hard about standing up for what you started?

Why is it, do you think, when you set up a parameter to play in, people change it and then claim that they do not want to play in it or stand up for what was originally started? This is a question that I have been pondering for a while. As I look at this question, I am asking myself several questions.

The first one..  I set up the parameter so that everyone that participated could really decide if they wanted to or not. I knew that a certain kind of attitude would need to be held and certain actions would have to be taken in order to participate… question would be: is that still happening ? Continue reading

How would you change your Life??????

How would you change your life? Are you willing to look at your life and really let go of the story that has made you sad? Are you ready to take just one small step and see where it has brought you? Not look ahead where it could take you, but simply where you are after just one small step. This is the very way to change your life right this very moment. Do you have the courage to do this simple task? Continue reading