Can it be possible to love yourself the same as falling in love for the very first time? I say not only is it possible but it is Necessary in order to have a long and happy life here. It is possible to reach the heavens and experience that peace and tranquility right here, right now.
As I was working with a small gathering this evening the first question asked was: How do you detach from those in the work force and those people that you are working with. And how do you not be attached to any of the outcomes that are happening at work?
Once I began to realize that I made the hole that my heart fell into; that pain so deep I could not breathe was of my own making, I had to take a deep breath and feel the hurt. I had to be willing to talk about that hurt. I had to be willing to open my heart once again to love. To a love that was just for me. Did I fall down? Yes, I did several times. Yet, I never gave up on myself again. I did get mad at myself for falling down. Continue reading
The thing that I have found the hardest to understand about detachment was that I had to let go of what the other person was doing. That is what was hurting me the most. Why can they not just see that it is their action that is the most offensive. Continue reading