Last week in class we were discussing how each of us, even when asked questions, still do not make choices that allow for us to be the primary parrticipant in our lives. Really! Did you really just read these words? I am telling you that even though you have been working with true diligence to find out about how to make you the most important person in your world, you are still talking yourself into being the secondary participant in your very own life.
When you begin to follow your heart it can be very confusing because for so long you have been following someone else’s. Yes, you have… you have been following either someone who really does love you but because they gave up their hearts at an early age, have directed you to their very best or you are following someone who is so terrified in living that they simply think that controlling everything and everyone so they feel something is the way to go.
When you are learning to value yourself you must remember that the most important part of any relationship is love and you must take the accountability that it is your responsibility to make the choices that support the love that you should have for yourself.
Have you ever felt like you are not listened to or not heard? Have you been in old relationships and then started new ones and they were wonderful and exciting and then you find yourself feeling the same way? Or perhaps you have a fear of creating the very same kind of relationship of not being heard or appreciated? Are you working on a long standing relationship and find yourself back to square one?
How do you, as a new student in communicating with one’s self and learning to really hear and begin to make changes, begin the communications with the children in your lives that we have now acting out because of you not taking the physical steps that were necessary to create the happiness in your heart.
Now I would like to begin to talk about another form of communication. I would like to share how you begin to talk to yourself in the brutal honesty that I talk about. If you have read my blogs or listened to my talk radio show, you will have heard me refer to this concept.
Learning to communicate with yourself can be truly the hardest thing you ever do. There are many pitfalls along the way as you begin to pull away from the social consciousness that has been a part of your life up to this date. You are asking questions that as you ask those around you are not making your heart feel at peace. You must always remember that the truth is held within your heart.