Happiness as our gauge

happiness9-aristotleI know that when you decide it is time to have joy in your everyday world, the possibility of it becoming a reality is really here for you to enjoy. If anyone has the drama for pain and suffering that I have had, please know I’m speaking to you, too. It was that deep pain from being raped, not only my body, but my young mind… by those who I felt should protect me, that could have left me stuck in misery and hopelessness. Yet that is not what happened.

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Your Story Line Keeps You Unhappy

What does it mean to stand in your heart and be truthful to yourself? What does it mean when we feel a yearning in our inner being that does not seem to go away no matter what we try and do to make changes in ourselves?

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DOUBT – how it stops our creation

When one sits in doubt, what can we do to step out of it as quickly as possible so we do not wander too far from our hearts desire?

I know this to be the greatest killer of all dreams, hopes, and desires. As we sit on the verge of seeing our creations come to completion, if we could just begin to see this is where we lose heart. This is when we are weary and we have been working hard at the physical part of the completion of our dreams coming true. Continue reading

Joy is not possible with doubt lurking in our minds.

I have also found that my doubts about my ability stand the very most between me and my glorious joy. It stands in the way of my most wonderful creations. It is doubt, yes!

I have walked this for many years and I know I have come to a place where I understand that doubt can not be in a person’s heart in any part of your creation. Continue reading

Self gratification takes others to feel FOR you, Filling Your Needs is an Internal Process.

Self gratification is different from filling your own needs. The first has an outcome that depends on others to have it done for you, where truly filling your needs is an internal process first; Which then allows the internal guidance to lead us to take the steps which will have the fulfillment of our need created. It is done in such a way that each of us knows just how we had our needs fulfillment brought to us… for us… by us.

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Change, Why Are We Afraid to Change Ourselves

I think that some of the hardest things about changing ones self is when we are challenged by our closest friends and family. It always seems hard when they think we are bluffing and we walk quietly through their bluff and then have circumstances that could change their lives begin to happen.

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When a Friend decides to leave our life what then

When you think you are going along fine and then you hear from a friend that they no longer want to participate with you what do you do?

Do you give them the respect of ok, you have that right, and go on.

Do you bother them further for an explanation?

What is the method that we should walk through so our heart does not hurt any more because of the empty feeling that seems to be left there in  our heart? Continue reading

How would you change your Life??????

How would you change your life? Are you willing to look at your life and really let go of the story that has made you sad? Are you ready to take just one small step and see where it has brought you? Not look ahead where it could take you, but simply where you are after just one small step. This is the very way to change your life right this very moment. Do you have the courage to do this simple task? Continue reading