What I have found so interesting about understanding boundaries and parameters is that I have all the control over any and every thing that happens to me. It was such a huge secret yet so very simple to apply in my life.
How do you, as a new student in communicating with one’s self and learning to really hear and begin to make changes, begin the communications with the children in your lives that we have now acting out because of you not taking the physical steps that were necessary to create the happiness in your heart.
You are not happy, you want changes in your world, you have known what it is going to take to make yourself happy yet you do everything but the one thing that is going to change your life. Why do you think that is? Continue reading
When you are sharing your energy, you must become totally conscious that you are. This is where each and every one of us makes mistakes. Here you are, learning something new about yourself, you feel the power of you growing within you, you are on top of the world… Wow, can this get any better?
What is being Nice: it is someone who does not do well when they are not in control of the environment around them, yet does not like discord. So they, in their most ardent soft voice, try to force others not to show any signs of emotion.
When we begin to look for the story that we have been telling, one of the things that I personally learned to do, even if I did not like the beginning of the feeling for myself, is to find a group of people who I could trust. Trust because you will need them to have the strength to challenge you in a way that allows you to break through the hurt emotions that have become the very fabric of your story.
We are trying to think ourselves into a feeling and we are getting back a whole lot of heartache.
As small children we made choices to do things. Depending on the reaction of those around us, we chose if we were going to do it again.
As I have said before, it will take discipline in the beginning to stop ourselves from being in the blame game. My clients and students and I spend much time right here. I do not like going past this place and understanding until they have gotten familiar with this concept. Continue reading