When you are sharing your energy, you must become totally conscious that you are. This is where each and every one of us makes mistakes. Here you are, learning something new about yourself, you feel the power of you growing within you, you are on top of the world… Wow, can this get any better?
What is being Nice: it is someone who does not do well when they are not in control of the environment around them, yet does not like discord. So they, in their most ardent soft voice, try to force others not to show any signs of emotion.
When we begin to look for the story that we have been telling, one of the things that I personally learned to do, even if I did not like the beginning of the feeling for myself, is to find a group of people who I could trust. Trust because you will need them to have the strength to challenge you in a way that allows you to break through the hurt emotions that have become the very fabric of your story.
We are trying to think ourselves into a feeling and we are getting back a whole lot of heartache.
As small children we made choices to do things. Depending on the reaction of those around us, we chose if we were going to do it again.
As I have said before, it will take discipline in the beginning to stop ourselves from being in the blame game. My clients and students and I spend much time right here. I do not like going past this place and understanding until they have gotten familiar with this concept. Continue reading
Now we have to start looking at what a true feeling is. That will put us in a state of total UN-knowing. This is a place where many people do not give themselves the time to re-establish with themselves a true relationship with self. Continue reading
I was speaking of being a child and as I am watching them as they first come to our plane of existence here.
They have so much to learn. Then when they get a Parent instead of a Guardian. You can see it everywhere with so many Mothers and Fathers. Continue reading
Okay, we have now gotten to the place where we can start seeing that we are really mad, a lot of the time. We have become really good at calling it a multitude of things, such as stress, moody, PMS, sleep deprivation, depressed, that time of the month for both sexes, anxious, can you see where I am going with this thought. Continue reading