It is very interesting for me to watch when a bunch of friends get together and spend the whole time together trying to make the others responsibility for their feelings. What does it mean to hang out with the right crowd, if the right crowd makes everyone feel so very wrong?
One of the first things that you must learn about this world and how we fit into it is that we have such awesome power. That power lies within your keeping of your heart. This Universe fills every need you have.
When you make a choice and you receive negative feedback what should you do about it? The first thing I suggest is look at the choice itself. The problem of negative feedback is you so often get lost in the way the feedback is demonstrated back to you.
Why do you go to someone else to try and get yourself out of trouble? Or worse yet, lot’s of ‘you’s’ trying to get someone else to get a person out of trouble. Let me try and explain: I have been watching how when someone makes a mistake they seem to go to someone else to try to get them out of the mess they are in. Have you noticed this?
What is it about feeling ashamed about a choice that we have made, that makes us not want to ask for help?
When you first start learning about changing back to your internal being, the one you choose to be when you first started having thoughts, it seems that you have trouble with those that are in your life. They do not trust this new you. Or maybe even they do not want the new you.
On my BlogTalk radio show Self Is Necessary, I was talking about standing in half-truths when making choices for someone else. As I was speaking I realized how it takes a discipline with great resolve for change to maintain making choices just for yourself. You have been making choices for you but really giving priority to what will be easiest for those in your life. In this way you have been making others more important. And you’ve been doing it this way for so long that it is now just a normal thought process.
When you decide to make a choice because of someone else, you are standing in a half truth. One of the worst things we picked up from our early training was to make choices counter to our true feelings.
When you take the time to look at who you are and what you are doing, you take a long look at how you feel about your life as it is right now. You make judgments about what that is feeling like at the moment you are looking at it.
