Why have we become so quick to deflect from any emotional or bad feelings when interacting with people? When you walk in the Universal Truth, you have come to an understanding where you realize the following – you make a choice, you have a physical experience, and then you analyze the physical experience to see if you would repeat any of the sequence steps that led you to have the physical experience.
When one walks forward and it feels as though the path you have chosen is lonely, how do you know you are walking for your own good? Well, that is how. I know, that sounds silly. Yet think about it. You have created a mathematical equation; in that equation you have mapped out certain experiences so your soul could grow in it’s understandings. You did not map it out for your friends and family. See where this is going?
Why do we have conflict with our choices about how we are going to live our lives? If you are in any way feeling unhappy about anything in your life at all you are in conflict with your choices. That is the problem right there.
You do not recognize that by not seeing that each and every choice you make compounds the choices that you made prior to the choice in this now. We so want to deflect from our hearts the emotions that make us sad, so we have a tendency to jump over those emotions and try to bury them deep down inside. Continue reading
One of the most asked questions I hear is how do you recognize your feelings? When this question was first asked of me, I was taken back, I had to ask myself, What do you mean your feelings? I spent many long days in contemplation about this question.
Today I want to continue discussing the value of sitting in a feeling. When a person is sitting in their feelings as they address their life it is not about crying or being sad… that is not a feeling, that is an emotion. As the word expresses, by emoting you are to express this in a way that allows you to learn why you were unhappy with your choice and why you will either continue the same choice or make another.
How do you find yourself if you only know how to stand in your intellect and think you are standing in your feelings? This is a question that is not asked of me but I see is clearly the case as I work with a person.
I have so many people ask me how they can know what their needs are. As we are talking they are expressing what they think their needs are. I know that most of us feel our needs are those things like food, clothing, housing, jobs.
Once you begin to see the value of looking at your emotions and learning to use them to eliminate the prejudices that you have about the choices you are making, then you can truly begin to take charge and start to make choices that have your heart feel ease… not the dis ease that you have learned to cope with.