As I have already stated we must learn how to be our own guardian.
We must learn to question ourselves in a way that sets us free and apart from our old beliefs and opinions that are of the physical world.
We must learn the differences about having expectations about any given life scenario. We have to give up on the idea that someone else makes us have feelings good or bad. We have to give up the idea that there is a good or a bad. We have to learn how to be accountable to ourselves without guilt and or obligation to ourselves or others.