Shaking Off Attachments

As I was working with a small gathering this evening the first question asked was: How do you detach from those in the work force and those people that you are working with. And how do you not be attached to any of the outcomes that are happening at work?

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Attachment and mind chatter – united in trying to defeat us?

Okay, so I hear this uproar about detachment. Giving up on family and friends? Doing only for self?, this is against all that you have been taught. Well yes it is, unless you had a Guardian or Guardians who taught you otherwise. Most likely the only thing you have been taught was how to try to control each and every scenario in your world.

Have you been told you are bossy and always think you are right all the time? That you can not be trusted? Or is it the other way around… where you give so much of you and there is not one person that gives to you? Either way it is still out of control because: Continue reading

Expanding Beliefs

In my last post I was talking about detaching from another persons frame of reference as well as our own. Let’s explore further…

It is possible to be very happy with the world around you no matter what the life experience is with the people that you share your life with. Yes, it is!

Once again, the first place you want to begin is in the understanding of detachment. It does not mean going far, far away in your mind. It does not mean you are sharing a house with someone but not having a very fulfilling life with that person. Continue reading

The Process That Sets You Free

What is detachment? We must begin by looking at all of our experiences as sent out by a vibration we are sitting in.

We recognize a vibration by looking with our eyes and heart. By being really honest with how we like or do not like the experiences we are having.

It is right here that we have become really good at lying to ourselves. Yes, we lie to ourselves so very often. Continue reading

Detachment from ourselves

The thing that I have found the hardest to understand about detachment was that I had to  let go of what the other person was doing. That is what was hurting me the most. Why can they not just see that it is their action that is the most offensive. Continue reading

questions: Detachment? What!!!!

What is detachment? We must begin by looking at all of our experiences as sent out by a vibration we are sitting in.

We recognize a vibration by looking with our eyes and heart. By being really honest with how we like or do not like the experiences we are having. Continue reading

Questions we should ask ourselves

We are learning about being a guardian for ourselves. You would think that would be such a simple task for oneself. Yet, how often do we really take the time to question ourselves about the choices we are making in each and every now? Continue reading