I think the hardest thing about having true communications with others is not getting lost in questioning what are facts and what is fiction with our stories and other peoples stories.
Have you ever been trying to express your feelings with someone, and they keep trying to throw other issues into the mix? Do you maintain the expressing of your feelings? Or do you get caught up in the side issues?
If we could see this world in a different light would we be willing to live differently? When we are caught in our everyday lives, do we believe that we can start over and change everything about ourselves? Well that is the very thing that I have spent the last 25 years working on with my clients.
When we come to this point in our lives we are very excited. Are we ready to change how we look at the experiences that we have had in the past? To start looking at them as the person that directed how the story begins? To ask what characters we’re going to put in the plot, the sub-plot and the ending?
I was so excited as I began to see that I could re-write a story in my life. So what does this mean to me? This means that I go to the core of who I am. Then I look at what I have said about the things that have happened to me. I take a very personal attitude about this. We can claim that our stories are very sad, and we made the life experience itself probably feel very sad. Yet, and this is the hardest part, did it affect us within our core? It is at this point that I have learned to love myself in a different way.
Once we have come to a place where we are no longer sustaining happiness in our every day lives, we must stop and take stock of where our thoughts and feelings are. It is right here where we should begin if and only if we need real change in our lives.
This subject is so fascinating for me. I found in the dictionary 12 definitions of passion. Yet they did not seem to touch on the quest of Passion for self. I think it is the kind of passion that you read in story books. The quest that damn near kills you before you get to the end.
Like all of us here I was born. We all are. It is part of the physical experience that we need to have. It would be too great a shock to our make up if we just walked away from the All. Continue reading