One of the things that I do repeatedly throughout the year is to look back at what my life was like just six months ago. I do this so I do not lose sight of all the quiet changes that happen without a lot of fan fair or parades. I bring this up to you because at first giving up the victim mode of our society is not an easy feat. You must be sure that as you are doing your evaluation process that it is always about you, yourself, and no one else. Whenever you look at what decision you are making and the choices that you make in those everyday moments, you must be clear with yourself that they are yours and yours alone.
I have been working in one of my classes and so I would like to share with you some of the questions that seem to predominate in this class.The one thing that is worked on in each class is how to evaluate the experiences you are having so that you can begin to know yourself without hesitation. What I heard was that people need to understand that the process for success, time and time again, is to remember that to be ahead of your life and be in charge you remember to evaluate the invitation, or life experience, in the truth.
What do you think it means when you read words like loving yourself above all else? When you take the time to journal and contemplate in divine love do you think that your contemplation’s are going to take you to a place where you have to give up all your earthly pleasures?
I have begun to talk about the first three steps of a sequence. Knowing, Decision, and Choice. The reason that it is so important to know these things is that you want to begin to truly understand what it means to know your sequence of any creation. To know and understand this is to begin to take your power for self in creating a life that is always under your direction. You will begin to see that you do not have to control or make sure all your ducks are in a row. You will not have to make sure each step you think you should take needs to be perfect before you can take them.
When I share with people that they KNOW their knowings, I get a lot of resistance from them. People claim they don’t know how to discern a ‘knowing’. So I will spend a little time here and detail for you what is a knowing.
At first we do have to find that guardian that we can trust. I find this is the hardest thing for my new clients and students. First it is feeling the relaxation to share with someone those inner-most feelings and that those inner-most stories that we share about our humiliations and hurts creates a bond or a vibrational hold on the two people involved in the original story as well as the person that you begin to share it with.
So you believe you are standing in the truth and you feel that because of that you are standing all alone? That is a great example of standing in a story that supports that you are physical being with no link to the divine source. Yes, that is right. Even if you have been walking and growing into the truth of the divine and how it flows through your physical body, you run the risk of falling into believing a story. I am writing about this because it is right here that we must see it is happening because we did not make a decision .
When a decision is made it is imperative to only make choices that support your new decision. What I see is once a client or student makes a life changing decision, they seem to feel that they have to hedge their bets with those people that they live and interact with.
Let’s talk about being a spiritual being and having people in your life who do not want to take responsibility for the life choices they are making. How do you BE… as a person wanting to know the truth, to walk the path of true peace and harmony, walking here as the God-being you are?