I have been watching and working with couples and I often see when people have stories that have been with them about how they feel about their life before they met the person they choose to share their life with. I hear from both sides how they assume that the other person is the one that should give validation of the things they do in the Universe called their life. I have heard how they share how they would comply with the wishes with the other as though they really cared yet then proceeded to talk the other one into the real way they wanted things to go.
Each day you are going to want to take a look at the steps you took yesterday. How did you do in your communications with yourself? The way you know is by the interactions that you are having not only with those most intimate with you but how are you also interacting with acquaintances, and with people you are just meeting? How about people you are talking with on the phone or while walking into a gas station?
I know I spend a lot of time on writing about communication. How important it is to know that what you are saying is being heard by those that you are trying to share with, and of course the most important part of communication… hearing the words you are sharing with others and asking yourself if they are the true words you are saying about yourself.
When one talks about communicating does that mean with others? Does that mean with one’s self? Does that mean with the all encompassing Universe for all the answers one could ever hope to have answered?
Learning to communicate with yourself can be truly the hardest thing you ever do. There are many pitfalls along the way as you begin to pull away from the social consciousness that has been a part of your life up to this date. You are asking questions that as you ask those around you are not making your heart feel at peace. You must always remember that the truth is held within your heart.
So as you learn that true communication is the words that you use to learn the ” Whys” the “What’s” the ” When’s”… the Who you should always know is yourself. This is the true communication with self. You are asking yourself questions about why you feel the way you do about the one thing that is bothering you at this moment.
I think the hardest thing about having true communications with others is not getting lost in questioning what are facts and what is fiction with our stories and other peoples stories.