How to be in love with You.

One of the most asked questions of my clients to me is, “How does one love self?” The first time I heard this I thought to myself, how does one answer that question with one answer? This is the very reason I started The Life Learning Center of Self. Because one does not answer this with one answer. Continue reading

The internal chatter we do not even hear.

I have spent lots of hours trying to work with my clients and students about mind chatter. This is probably the most sabotaging work we can do against ourselves. Another way of saying mind chatter is self-destruction. Because of how we hear ourselves talk, we also feel others are saying those same kinds of words. It is really eye-opening as I am listening to a conversation and when hearing each person talk about the conversation they are talking as if two different conversations were going on at the same time.

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What is an undercurrent and can we really get rid of them?

As I work with clients I am going back and trying to learn words that will help dislodge the undercurrents that seem to get in the way of a true student that desires real changes in their lives. It is not as easy as one would think. I have watched wonderful, kind people struggle with changing an idea or an opinion that has kept them hostage in an old way of life.

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Walking today to change tomorrow

I have seen that one of the hardest concepts for my students and clients to grasp is how to walk today full of grace and knowledge and not have tomorrow be a disaster. This is what I have learned from my journey. I have learned that the very thoughts that hold you captive today lead to what you will  be physically experiencing tomorrow. Continue reading

Stories: anger-vs-happiness

As I have worked with clients at Life Learning Center of Self I have begun using the term ‘Stories’. My interpretation of this word is our life experiences. As I work with a client we come to a space where an understanding comes that to make choices has always been our right.

Yet not all of us have found a way of being conscious of when we choose something in our lives. As we get to know one another it allows for the discussions on, ” How to recognize even as a small child our choices” for ourselves. Continue reading

Do we have knowings?

What allows some to have information about this earth plane and others not? What makes some of us stand so strong in believing in a spiritual world; Other than what a religious foundation is willing to express for every one. Just mystical beings that never seem to be alive while we are?

How do we get in touch with that mystical being that I know resides in each and every one of ourselves. I have no doubt that all of us on this earth has an ear for our internal truths. Why do some of us hear it so easily while others struggle over such mundane experiences? Continue reading

“Recognizing who we were”

As I have said before, it will take discipline in the beginning to stop ourselves from being in the blame game. My clients and students and I spend much time right here. I do not like going past this place and understanding until they have gotten familiar with this concept. Continue reading

To Begin to change!!!”Really”

Now we have to start looking at what a true feeling is. That will put us in a state of total UN-knowing. This is a place where many people do not give themselves the time to re-establish with themselves a true relationship with self. Continue reading