Why does it seem when you think you have a handle on your life, you have a direction and you feel good about the direction you are going and the choices that you are making, you wake up one day and all holy hell has broken loose in your life?!?
So to make a change in one’s life you do what? You wake up in the morning and say I want to be different? Well maybe, but most of the time it has much more to do with not being happy with choices that we seem to be forced to make.
When you have been on the walk for awhile and you are learning some amazing things, about yourself and how to maneuver around in the world, and then the wall seems to hit you, and hit you hard, how do you keep your equilibrium?!
What do choices, stories, truth, love, and life have to do with really changing the course of our own history? These are questions that are asked of me when I have someone new come and begin to work with me about changing their lives.
When you wake up and realize that your life is definitely not what you thought it was going to be, what do you do?
As I was working with one of my students recently, it came to my notice that when I teach how to evaluate, that the student was only using the evaluating process for the life experiences already had.
How do you be true to yourself when you are in a new / old relationship? This is a question that some of my students have been asking me of late. How many of you are really the “Runaway Bride”? Or Groom?
Why do we have conflict with our choices about how we are going to live our lives? If you are in any way feeling unhappy about anything in your life at all you are in conflict with your choices. That is the problem right there.
You do not recognize that by not seeing that each and every choice you make compounds the choices that you made prior to the choice in this now. We so want to deflect from our hearts the emotions that make us sad, so we have a tendency to jump over those emotions and try to bury them deep down inside. Continue reading
We have a holiday called Patriots day and it is to celebrate and come together as a Nation for a sad day in our history. We hear speeches from the survivors and family members of those lost in the tragedy of that day. We, as a Nation, should stand up and remember, for it is in the remembering that we make other choices.
Why is it so hard to ask one’s self the questions to understand why you make the choices you are making in your life?