There comes a time in each of our lives when we just have to make the choice – are we going to continue on and be totally unhappy, or are we going to make the changes in our lives that make us smile when we are all by ourselves? Each of us will come to this place.
What makes it so hard for you to make a different choice? One of the things I see most is people saying they really desire change, yet they do not want to change the choices they are making.
Why have we become so quick to deflect from any emotional or bad feelings when interacting with people? When you walk in the Universal Truth, you have come to an understanding where you realize the following – you make a choice, you have a physical experience, and then you analyze the physical experience to see if you would repeat any of the sequence steps that led you to have the physical experience.
Have you ever found yourself waking up in the morning and watching someone else’s life and wanting a do-over on your own? Well, what do you think a do-over would entail? I feel that is probably right where most of you would decide all was lost and would give up. Why do you think I would say that?
Why does a new person in your life make you feel so wonderful? The whole reason that new people can come into your life is because within that process of being you, you are making conscious choices to have change in your life.
When you get a strong understanding about not trying to get someone to accept why you have needs to be met and you learn how to simply fill your own needs, then you are beginning to take back the power of your life.
Today I am thinking about how to explain the wonders of evaluation vs judgement. When we look at the choices we are about to make… or the ones we have made in the past… we must learn to understand that our patterns, those thoughts and actions (and choices) that we repeat time and time again, are not serving us.
You know what I’m talking about…the patterns that get us so upset because we are continually having things happen that we simply do not have a need any longer to experience. Continue reading
As we walked through the holidays, I saw how often the loved ones around us use this quiet but deadly way of killing any kind of relationship with people we are saying we love.
One of the most asked questions of my clients to me is, “How does one love self?” The first time I heard this I thought to myself, how does one answer that question with one answer? This is the very reason I started The Life Learning Center of Self. Because one does not answer this with one answer. Continue reading
