Let’s talk about the art of deflection. What is deflection and why have you made it an Art form?
The Art of Deflection
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Parameters in your relationship
So, you are in a relationship, and you’re sharing a family, a home, and all the bills and money issues that go along with that kind of a relationship. In this relationship do you feel your happiness? Do you feel that the world is your oyster? The things that you dream about – are they all becoming a reality or are they getting pushed farther and farther back into that very messy closet where all those things you want to do some day but have not gotten to it as of yet are located?
There are two sides of a relationship that I have spoken about here. Some relationships might look like this: Continue reading
Stand Up in Truth
One of the things I am noticing about giving opinions is the problem that arises when you are not standing in the truth. I hear so many people who believe that learning to stand up for themselves means being able to say anything that bugs them about anything… and they claim that is the truth and their right of passage.
Expressing yourself without being confrontational
How to get through to people who call themselves, “Being very direct” or as I call it… expressing yourself without being confrontational.
Watching and seeing the quiet bully within
Of course we had to come to this point where, if we are seeing the bully around us or those that bully us, it really does mean that we can lovingly see that we might… at one time or another… have been the bully as well. Or perhaps we are still the bully.
Quietly being a bully
As we walked through the holidays, I saw how often the loved ones around us use this quiet but deadly way of killing any kind of relationship with people we are saying we love.