As the class was looking at the subject that each one of them decided to put the light on for the past week the main theme that came through was how to see ahead of time how one of your old behaviors can be sneaking up on you as you are interacting with people that have nothing to do with the reason you pulled in the behavior.
You have now been practicing the art of questioning and being your own Guardian. Yet you still are having difficulty in taking those actions steps that stand up for you. It has been so long that you have spent worrying about other peoples feelings and needs it just simply feels wrong to you to stand up for your personal needs. So this simply means you have to continue to evaluate your self- worth over those other’s needs.