One of the things that I do repeatedly throughout the year is to look back at what my life was like just six months ago. I do this so I do not lose sight of all the quiet changes that happen without a lot of fan fair or parades. I bring this up to you because at first giving up the victim mode of our society is not an easy feat. You must be sure that as you are doing your evaluation process that it is always about you, yourself, and no one else. Whenever you look at what decision you are making and the choices that you make in those everyday moments, you must be clear with yourself that they are yours and yours alone.
As you continue to look at all the tools you can use as you evaluate before you have a physical experience, you are actually preparing ahead of time. How many times, as you are beginning to take control of your life, have you wanted to kick that spirit pillow? As you asked yourself, “Why am I always seeing later what I could have done before hand?”
Why have we become so quick to deflect from any emotional or bad feelings when interacting with people? When you walk in the Universal Truth, you have come to an understanding where you realize the following – you make a choice, you have a physical experience, and then you analyze the physical experience to see if you would repeat any of the sequence steps that led you to have the physical experience.