I have heard people say that this is just how they talk and that you should just get a thicker skin. I say that sarcasm is the lowest form of brutality there is. It is not about you or anyone else getting a thicker skin it is about communicating with the person or persons who are using the sarcasm to see that they are bullying with each sarcastic word they are using.
That if you allow this to be done to you or associate with those that do you as well are a bully. You are a bully to those that you are allowing the sarcasm to be used against without you speaking out. There is nothing at all funny about being bullied and anyone that has been bullied knows how long it’s affects stay with you. There is a movement out there to get the awareness out about school bullies but where the biggest offence of bullying is, is right in the home. When a spouse is being sarcastic because of not knowing how to communicate or children are to their siblings, or parents. You can see it everywhere and it is allowed and why?
I teach that it is the most important thing for each of you to learn how to journal your thoughts and feelings so that you can look at the story that you have written. So that you can begin to take the accountabilities for the choices you are making about how you are communicating with those individuals that you are allowing those thoughts that lead you to being sarcastic. It is not for other people to speak to you or know what is going on. It is for you to come to the understanding that you made choices and that it is for you to go and see where you made choices that have led you down the path that you find yourself on right now.
By using sarcasm all you are doing is masking your own pain and your own distrust of your own ability to make good choices for yourself. You are unwilling to look at the hit you took when you made the choice that did not feel good to you. If you allowed that very bad feeling that you had you would have started the process of evaluation. In the evaluation process you begin to see where you and only you made choices that did not support the healthy loving harmony that is your god giving right. Instead though you want to share your unhappiness in a very unhealthy and brutal way by being sarcastic to those around you and then laughing at the expense of someone else’s feelings.
Do I sound harsh? I am because it affects so many millions of people on this earth plane and it is all because those that use sarcasm simply do not want to be in charge of the choices they made in their very own lives.
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