Revisiting Boundaries and Parameters

setting-boundariesDo you know and understand that internal boundaries are not the same as parameters? It used to surprise me to see that most people do not know the difference between the two concepts.

First, I have been a Life Strategist for the past 20 years. I have worked on the concepts of the physical ideas with the concept of the spiritual world around us. How the two work together, but how they also stand beside each other in the sense of what boundaries and parameters do. I have learned much about information that is available to us through meditation. How to connect with the internal truth of self.

Here are a few things I have learned…

First, I had to learn to stand in Universal Truth. Next, I had to learn that nothing happened to me without me sitting in a feeling first. This was very confusing for me in the beginning. I, like so many others, wanted to go outside of myself to blame circustances for my geeling getting hurt.

What does this have to do with boundaries and parameters?

Well as I was finding out about feelings I came to realize that my internal feeling is, and was, my internal integrity, those were the boundaries that if I let myself walk over them, was actually what was hurting my feelings. Yet for a very long time I held my family, friends, children and even my spouse hostage for hurting my feelings.

The parameters are what we have total control over. It is each and every event that we plan for ourselves, with others. It is the physical experiences that we have on a daily basis. Parameters are so easy to start utilizing so that we gain total choice in all we do. Oh, this sure sounds easy does it not? Well, I did not find it easy at all in the beginning.

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