When one begins the walk of learning totally about the concept of SELF, where do you go? Does one become totally self absorbed to the exclusion of anyone else in your world? Does ‘Self is Necessary’ mean that you have to do all things by yourself?
I have come to feel the easiest way for me to continue on my path is when I always stand in the truth of why I am on that path in the first place. You will find that you will have moments when you have spent an intense time in working with spirit and your soul is rejoicing. For example, let’s say you were at one of my three day seminars and you were spinning high. You left and your heart feels so good, your mind says, “This is the way I desire to feel each moment of everyday”.
The most freeing information I received while I was contemplating was that there is one reason and one reason only we come here on this wonderful planet. When I could understand this information, it gave me such peace of mind. Since then I have been working on the stories that are contrast to this one piece of information.
One of the things that you will need to practice when you are beginning this walk of truth is watching for where you place expectations on someone else. Relying on any specific person or people shows that you have an attachment to that person. Attachments are very harmful for both parties involved.
When you wake up and begin to take charge of your life, the first thing you should add is empathy for self. You will begin to find that all of your choices that have made your life unbearable will need lots of love for you, from you.
What do choices, stories, truth, love, and life have to do with really changing the course of our own history? These are questions that are asked of me when I have someone new come and begin to work with me about changing their lives.
Learning to release the past and walk in the truth of this Universe does not mean we walk with no adversity in our lives. It means that when adversity does show up we move through it with grace, peace, and harmony within our heart.
I know that when you decide it is time to have joy in your everyday world, the possibility of it becoming a reality is really here for you to enjoy. If anyone has the drama for pain and suffering that I have had, please know I’m speaking to you, too. It was that deep pain from being raped, not only my body, but my young mind… by those who I felt should protect me, that could have left me stuck in misery and hopelessness. Yet that is not what happened.