What I have found so interesting, about understanding boundaries and parameters, is that I have all the control to any and every thing that happens to me. It was such a huge secret. Yet so very simple to apply in my life.

I guess the hardest, thing is to find out when we first started walking over our boundaries. I have found with my students and clients, that it began in the family nucleus. This is not about blaming the concept of Parents. This is about understanding this is generational. That many generations ago, the understanding was lost that Parents are and were suppose to be guardians to the young beings coming to this earth plane.

Does any one understand what exactly that means? This question seemed to take us on a track that did not support my original idea, boundaries and parameters. Yet, this is where we had to go. We had to back up and learn how to become our own Guardian.

We have learned to always go and ask someone out side of our selves, questions. Those that we have chosen to be wiser than we are ourselves. Have you, yourself, tried to give advice to some one you care for? Have you had an agenda, that was not quite in line with what the true question was for the person asking the question?

Well, that is always the hardest thing for any of us. So, if you’re telling your self, no, well, then you have not really been standing in the truth of self. Because it has not been my findings that people are standing in the role of Guardian.

A Guardian is a person that teaches us how to distinguish our true feelings for our selves.

They have no other agenda, but to show us the way to freedom for self.  So, we must learn to be that very being unto ourselves.

You would think that would be easy wouldn’t you?

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2 thoughts on “Guardians

  1. If we have been more Parents than Guardians how will we know that anyone other than ourselves is distinguishing their true feelings. I know I have imposed my feelings on my children as they grew up and now are letting them feel for themselves but how much of what they believe they feel today is really from me not their own true feelings. What suggestions can you share to help me stay on the course of Guardian and not Parent.

    • Because, you have already interacted as a parent, the likely hood of them not knowing their own feelings is inevitable. Yet, as you practice being a guardian for your self. You can use the same process with your children. When you have a feeling that they must hear your words. That they must do it the way you suggest. You know you have strayed into being the parent once again.

      A guardian always will ask how do you feel about how it turned out? Would you repeat the same action step? What could you do differently? That is the beginning of becoming a guardian to your self and others.

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