Filling your own needs

i-choose-to-make-my-lifeI was speaking of being a child and as I am watching them as they first come to our plane of existence here. They have so much to learn. Then they get a Parent instead of a Guardian. You can see it everywhere with so many Mothers and Fathers.

When you go into a grocery store and a child is crying. All because it was the parents need to bring them with.

Lets talk about needs. Ours and others. Walking over boundaries everywhere here.

Well, as a previous mother, meaning I have all adult children now; I am mother only in title now, I sure had to learn to stand in just my needs. Not do things just because this little person says they would like something.

I know I am opening a can of worms here. I am going to be tripping a lot of triggers in a lot of people. Well, that shows that very few of us know how to stand in our own needs.

There should be not one person getting mad about those last few words that I just wrote.


Can you just imagine what that would mean to this place we call Earth. Well, we would not have a reason to fear, or hate, or begrudge, or feel shame, or… or… or. I hope you are understanding where I am going with this.

So, let’s see if we can scratch the surface of filling our own needs. I am calling a need anything that I need to make myself feel happy. That encompasses all things just for me.

My greatest challenge when this thought first came to me, was how do I take care of my family and still fill my needs. How do I get it through to every one I was dealing with, “do not use guilt and obligation on me” or for me to use it on someone else to get what I wanted. This is one of those circle things I was talking about before. That first Law of the Universe.

Now, to begin with, we must stand in Love, the kind of love that reaches past guilt, hatred, obligation, greed, fear and so on. Yes, it is possible right here and right now. Even with the way our world is right now. Do you really want to learn about this? There are many ideas and beliefs that you are simply going to have to give up. That is not as easy as it may seem. Do you listen to even half of your thoughts that you are thinking about at any given time?

Here is an experiment: Turn on the T.V. and pick any channel then start taking notes about what you feel about the subject that is being discussed. It does not matter to me if it is a comedy, factual, sci fi, horror, news, religion, politics. Just start taking actual notes of the thoughts that you are having. Put down all the emotions that your are experiencing right then and there. Do not just put the good feelings down. Challenge yourself. Watch for things that make you feel uneasy. Things that you say you could just not watch.

I have a student that has not caught on to how this would set them free of things that they have kept hidden from themselves. Stop putting your head in the sand people! Then start looking at what you believe in. Do not judge this. This is the start of seeing things you may not believe in any more. You just forgot to delete it from your thoughts.

It will begin to show you emotions and feelings that you have been keeping from yourself. Not from others, mind you. We are not attached to your beliefs so of course we can hear what your thoughts about anything are just by listening to your random speaking.

It is very interesting to listen to my clients and students. I then ask them a question about what they had just said, they will immediately state that is not what they meant.  They do not realize that I am using what they said, to make my response. That is how it works. If people are listening to what they are saying, they can hear where their beliefs are setting themselves up.

Yet we want to sit in judgment of those beliefs. So then we do not want to think that could possibly be us.





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