What happens in our lives that let’s us know that by changing our stories we are now on the right track? The answer is so different for each and every one of us. This is why when we go outside of ourselves for validation we are getting advice that does not quite fit our story.
I have found that our life itself tells us exactly where we are standing when we begin to change our stories.
What I mean by this is we are each different, even if slightly. We are because each one of us feels differently about all things. We may agree with one another but that does not mean we agree fully. That means we are all in different degrees of understanding.
This is the uniqueness of our planet . It is the uniqueness that hampers teaching large groups of children. We lose our individuality. With the loss of our individuality we lose our feelings. Our inner core knows when we are about to walk over our own boundaries.
Without the signals of our feelings letting us know when we about to leave ourselves out of the story of our life, we end up very unhappy. Some of us lose large portions of our lives in depression. Some of us come to a time in our lives when we simply give up hope for change. We begin to just make do. Many of us jump from relationship to relationship trying to find ourselves.
Yet all we have to do is to look at the effect of how we are telling the story of our life. If you have read my previous blogs you have begun to see that my training has given me the knowledge that we are responsible and accountable for all of our thoughts, feelings and actions. So, using these understandings is how you begin to change your stories.
When you look at any given experience you can make the choice to look at it as something that happened to you, which allows you not to be in control or you can look at it as a lesson. When you look at the same experience as a lesson and that it was your feelings and how you thought about those feelings that brought about the physical experience, then that now puts you in control of your life.