Recently I was talking about detaching from another persons frame of reference as well as our own. So, I would like to continue there. It is possible to be very happy with the world around you no matter what the life experience is with the people that you share your life with. Yes, it is!
The thing that I have found the hardest to understand about detachment was that I had to let go of what the other person was doing. That is what was hurting me the most. Why can they not just see that it is their action that is the most offensive.
We must learn how to be our own guardian. We must learn the differences about having expectations about any given life scenario. We have to give up on the idea that someone else makes us have feelings good or bad. We have to give up the idea that there is a good or a bad. We have to learn how to be accountable to ourselves without guilt and or obligation to ourselves or others.We must learn to question ourselves in a way that sets us free and apart from our old beliefs and opinions that are of the physical world.