Let’s start with a question that has haunted each of you once you began to question and answer your questions with honesty and openness. When you evaluate why you would do anything before you do so, and then truly critique the experience in the whole truth once you have gone through it…
It is very important to see how often you deflect yourself from truly hearing your inner truths. When it seems that conflict is coming at you the first thing you can do to defuse the situation is to, with all sincerity, ask a question. Yes, you read that correctly. It is not about defending yourself. Let me tell you why. You will always know when you are sitting in the Universal truth. The reason why is that everyone on this planet will know the minute they hear truth. So remember, if you are being questioned at all it is because you have asked for the understanding of what it is that is on your mind .
I would like to talk about learned behaviors. These are behaviors that you learned that were meant to serve as a temporary safety net but you lost sight of that. So now we need to talk about how easily you can deflect yourself from finding out the learned behaviors that are now keeping you from standing in your responsibilities and the accountabilities of making the changes to your thoughts and feelings and learning how to use your emotions as the very tool that will change your life.
When the world looks beautiful and everything is going your way do you now take the time to find out what you did, how you were feeling and the people you met and opportunities that came your way? This is one of the most important times to go back take the time to evaluate the whats, wheres and whys.
When you are working on having your creations, the style of life, or those special things that you have always wanted to experience, and you seem to keep missing it by just a smidge do you ask yourself why? I know for a very long time I spent lots and lots of hours learning how to be positive, and then wondering why the things that I felt should be my experience never seemed to touch me for very long. I did get to touch some of the successes I desired or I think I would have given up. Then I began to realize that if I wasn’t willing to make the changes that were really sitting in my heart about the world that I lived in I sure would not be able to even feel the world I wanted to have and experience .
As you are beginning a new day start it by allowing yourself the moments to accept the creations you are wanting to experience in your life. When you wake up in the morning I suggest that you give yourself the time to really sit in the sweetness of all the things you are now understanding about yourself and how you, and you alone, are accountable for the very experiences you are having.
Last week in class we were discussing how each of us, even when asked questions, still do not make choices that allow for us to be the primary parrticipant in our lives. Really! Did you really just read these words? I am telling you that even though you have been working with true diligence to find out about how to make you the most important person in your world, you are still talking yourself into being the secondary participant in your very own life.