Dealing with Combative Feedback

I have found that one of the hardest things for my students to learn to deal with in their lives is combative feedback. I am going to take some time here to really talk about combative feedback so we, in our need to stand up for ourselves, do not become the one that is sending out negative feedback.

Now I am sure you have met those people who are rude, loud and think that by being louder and over-talking anyone with an idea or opinion different than theirs, that they are right… that they are standing in the truth and come hell or high water they get to have the last word! Continue reading

Parameters in your relationship

the relationship agreementSo, you are in a relationship, and you’re sharing a family, a home, and all the bills and money issues that go along with that kind of a relationship. In this relationship do you feel your happiness? Do you feel that the world is your oyster? The things that you dream about – are they all becoming a reality or are they getting pushed farther and farther back into that very messy closet where all those things you want to do some day but have not gotten to it as of yet are located?

There are two sides of a relationship that I have spoken about here. Some relationships might look like this: Continue reading

The Importance of Passion

The Importance of PassionWe have a holiday called Patriots day and it is to celebrate and come together as a Nation for a sad day in our history. We hear speeches from the survivors and family members of those lost in the tragedy of that day. We, as a Nation, should stand up and remember, for it is in the remembering that we make other choices.

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Listening to Inner Guidance

Can it be possible to love yourself the same as falling in love for the very first time? I say not only is it possible but it is Necessary in order to have a long and happy life here. It is possible to reach the heavens and experience that peace and tranquility right here, right now.

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When to Walk Away

Ahhh…. that first bloom of love. The one that was so intense that it just rocked your world. Well, you can feel this for yourself when you begin to stand up for yourself in the quiet way of the simple truth that you really do get to. That you do not have to fight your way out of anything .

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Feeling is always on the scale of Joy

Today I want to continue discussing the value of sitting in a feeling. When a person is sitting in their feelings as they address their life it is not about crying or being sad… that is not a feeling, that is an emotion. As the word expresses, by emoting you are to express this in a way that allows you to learn why you were unhappy with your choice and why you will either continue the same choice or make another.

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When Intellect Trumps Feeling

How do you find yourself if you only know how to stand in your intellect and think you are standing in your feelings? This is a question that is not asked of me but I see is clearly the case as I work with a person.

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Setting the tone for your day

As you wake in the morning take the time to just snuggle for a bit. Allow yourself this time to connect yourself back to the internal source of your divine essence. Allow the joy to seep into your thoughts, allow this feeling of just allowing the source of love to flow through you. Oh yes you can. For a brief moment you allow yourself the knowing that nothing is harming you at that very moment that you are just languishing in your bed.

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