One of the things I am noticing about giving opinions is the problem that arises when you are not standing in the truth. I hear so many people who believe that learning to stand up for themselves means being able to say anything that bugs them about anything… and they claim that is the truth and their right of passage.
When you are sharing your energy, you must become totally conscious that you are. This is where each and every one of us makes mistakes. Here you are, learning something new about yourself, you feel the power of you growing within you, you are on top of the world… Wow, can this get any better?
When you are learning something new about yourself, do you take the time to study the old and the new of you? This is a time and space where you will become most creative. As that excitement of learning something wonderful about yourself is swirling around you in the most glorious way.
When you make a choice and you receive negative feedback what should you do about it? The first thing I suggest is look at the choice itself. The problem of negative feedback is you so often get lost in the way the feedback is demonstrated back to you.
Why do you go to someone else to try and get yourself out of trouble? Or worse yet, lot’s of ‘you’s’ trying to get someone else to get a person out of trouble. Let me try and explain: I have been watching how when someone makes a mistake they seem to go to someone else to try to get them out of the mess they are in. Have you noticed this?