As we look at several words, I have seen many people shy away from what they hold as a concept of them. To the point that they actually give up on themselves and walk away from a very happy existence. What words would you feel would do this to a person?
When I speak of being nice, what do you feel? What do think you are? Have you looked around at what is in your heart? I do not believe enough people, when they have anger erupt in their lives, look at what is in their heart. I believe that what they do is spend their time wondering and asking, “why did the other person do this to me? I am such a nice person.”
What is being Nice: it is someone who does not do well when they are not in control of the environment around them, yet does not like discord. So they, in their most ardent soft voice, try to force others not to show any signs of emotion.