As small children we made choices to do things. Depending on the reaction of those around us, we chose if we were going to do it again.
Now we must stand in Love - the kind of love that reaches past guilt, hatred, obligation, greed, fear, etc. Yes, it is possible right here and right now. Even with the way our world is right now.
I would like to talk about this process of getting to the truth. The truth about anger is we were basically scared and that made us feel ashamed. So we decided to call it mad. ( We were all of two years old maybe.)
The first thing you have to do is be really honest with yourself. Most of us have so much anger that we have just stopped feeling so many things in our lives.
Okay, so now you are wondering if being your own guardian is something that you can do for yourself or not. It should be. We have to get in touch with our young self.
What I have found so interesting, about understanding boundaries and parameters, is that I have all the control to any and every thing that happens to me. It was such a huge secret. Yet so very simple to apply in my life.