Do we have to let it bother us?

I think a good question to ask ourselves with every scenario that we live through is, “Do we have to let this bother us?” Now there are times when I say to myself ‘yes’, even though I know that is plain silly. Yet I want to stamp my foot and say ‘hey! what about my feelings..’ Continue reading

coping with everyone in our lives.

When you have those days that you just want to lie down and give up what do you do? What can we do to relieve the stress of children, bills, work, spouses? Of traffic on a crowded highway, when there is no movement at all and the guy behind you thinks beeping his or her horn is going to make the cars move magically in front of you.

Can you and do you take these things in stride? Or do they drive you instantly into wanting to scream and tear your hair out. Continue reading

Learning about our true feelings not the ones we share with others.

How often do we claim loudly what our feelings are, and then if we take time to really analyze those feelings we find out that is not how we feel at all? Do we as loudly proclaim that we have come to a different understanding? Then do we then stand up for the change by not acting the same old way to the people in our lives??? Continue reading

Walking with Grace, through everyday life

One of the things I spend a lot of time contemplating about is ‘how do I walk through my life while all that this world can throw at you seems to want to knock me down?’

When I am in my personal environment with my favorite music on, I love candles burning and incense going, my personal space is very harmonious.

When just one other person comes into that space the vibration changes dramatically. Yet, holding ones own happy and safe place is what we have striven for. What generally happens when this other person comes into your vibration? Can you hold the integrity of self? Does our vibration get buffeted and battered like on a windy day with a kite. Continue reading

Walking into Our future.

I am sure that anyone that has walked the path of learning about yourself in their spiritual path knows that as we face the changes we must make we can be overwhelmed. Asking ourselves, “How can I do this??! I so want my life to change but can I go ahead just for myself?” Continue reading

Stories: anger-vs-happiness

As I have worked with clients at Life Learning Center of Self I have begun using the term ‘Stories’. My interpretation of this word is our life experiences. As I work with a client we come to a space where an understanding comes that to make choices has always been our right.

Yet not all of us have found a way of being conscious of when we choose something in our lives. As we get to know one another it allows for the discussions on, ” How to recognize even as a small child our choices” for ourselves. Continue reading

Journey to the word Passion

Passion is a word that leads to great thought.

As I looked around at what I was doing and began to really look at the lives of people around me I was quite surprised to see that so many people do not expect to ever experience true passion in their lives. I could not imagine thinking that I would not have the experience of true passion in my life just for me. Continue reading

How would you change your Life??????

How would you change your life? Are you willing to look at your life and really let go of the story that has made you sad? Are you ready to take just one small step and see where it has brought you? Not look ahead where it could take you, but simply where you are after just one small step. This is the very way to change your life right this very moment. Do you have the courage to do this simple task? Continue reading

What about this World around us?!!!!

We are all living in this world and so many things are going on around us… volcanoes, earthquakes, bad weather, friends around us, our families, everything seems to really be taking a major hit. How do we keep ourselves on track? How do we keep our heads above water? What does it mean to find an inner peace that holds us in an embrace that keeps us safe and loved as this goes on around us? Continue reading