What I have found so interesting, about understanding boundaries and parameters, is that I have all the control to any and every thing that happens to me. It was such a huge secret. Yet so very simple to apply in my life.

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Boundaries and Parameters what are they?

In my classes we have been working on how not to cross our internal boundaries, and yet know and  understand that internal boundaries are not the same as parameters. It has been the subject of my classes for the past couple of weeks. I was surprised to see that most of the class did not know the difference between the two concepts. So much so, that they had some very frustrating following weeks. So, for my first blog I would like to start out with these two parallel, concepts.     Continue reading