When we move beyond blame

We must learn how to be our own guardian. We must learn the differences about having expectations about any given life scenario. We have to give up on the idea that someone else makes us have feelings good or bad. We have to give up the idea that there is a good or a bad. We have to learn how to be accountable to ourselves without guilt and or obligation to ourselves or others.We must learn to question ourselves in a way that sets us free and apart from our old beliefs and opinions that are of the physical world.

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The Role of the Guardian

As I have said before, it will take discipline in the beginning to stop ourselves from being in the blame game. My clients and students and I spend much time right here. I do not like going past this place and understanding until they have gotten familiar with this concept.
This is why I suggest journaling, listen to your self talk, be very hard on yourself in the beginning. You want to hear where you sit on any subject. Where is your opinion on any subject. You must come into this with an open mind. As though you are a brand new baby.

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How we got duped…

I recently was beginning to discuss how easy it is for someone else to hear where our beliefs are sitting. That is how we started going outside of ourselves for our answers. We would have a person listen to our thoughts and they would simply direct us in a way to absolve the thinking that did not work for us any longer. At some time past, someone began to use it as an easy way to begin having large groups of people be swayed into a thinking other than we are each directed from within ourselves. It even became a “sin” to go within and think for yourself.

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