When we communicate with one another why do we take the information that was shared with us as bad or sad or happy or glad or all those words that we can use? When I am working with someone I can tell just by how they are sharing their life stories with me if they are taking the responsibility and accountability that comes with being in charge of their lives.
What is the message that we can begin with in this new year of 2015? I have taken a break in the month of December to attend all the party’s, holiday festivals, and travel, that go along with life changes and visiting family and friends.
I have been writing about self for some time now and it is with the deepest and most profound love for me and for you that I spend the time in contemplation to have a forum to share with each and any one that is truly on the path of change .
When one talks about communicating does that mean with others? Does that mean with one’s self? Does that mean with the all encompassing Universe for all the answers one could ever hope to have answered?
Have you ever felt like you are not listened to or not heard? Have you been in old relationships and then started new ones and they were wonderful and exciting and then you find yourself feeling the same way? Or perhaps you have a fear of creating the very same kind of relationship of not being heard or appreciated? Are you working on a long standing relationship and find yourself back to square one?
When you are learning to follow your heart it can seem that you are walking away from everything you know and love. Yet ask yourself, why is your heart leading you in a direction that is so totally opposite of what you have been doing up to this moment?
So hopefully you are now understanding that in your contemplation of your life you look inward not outward. What I am talking about is really instead of looking at why someone else did something to you to hurt your emotions, you must begin to ask yourself questions about why you feel the way you do about the interaction that you are feeling bad about.
How do you, as a new student in communicating with one’s self and learning to really hear and begin to make changes, begin the communications with the children in your lives that we have now acting out because of you not taking the physical steps that were necessary to create the happiness in your heart.
Now I would like to begin to talk about another form of communication. I would like to share how you begin to talk to yourself in the brutal honesty that I talk about. If you have read my blogs or listened to my talk radio show, you will have heard me refer to this concept.