The greatest struggle that we each have in the beginning of wanting to have happiness and change, is that we want to accomplish this within the scenario we are now playing in. Well, I might as well break that bubble right now. Why? Because in any scientific study or test, the scientists know, if you want a change in your experiment you must put different particles or vibrations into the mix to get a different outcome.
At first we do have to find that guardian that we can trust. I find this is the hardest thing for my new clients and students. First it is feeling the relaxation to share with someone those inner-most feelings and that those inner-most stories that we share about our humiliations and hurts creates a bond or a vibrational hold on the two people involved in the original story as well as the person that you begin to share it with.
One the first things you have to really do for yourself is come to a place where you take the accountability for the truth that you really desire to have change. That is what is going to hold your feet to the fire when it starts getting a little hard for you. Why do I say this? Because if you really desire to have the joy in your everyday experience then you will have to constantly remind yourself that it has been you who started this walk to the truth and that it is going to take your diligence to remember this when others tell you that you should be happy with what you have and stop reaching for the stars. The stars that set your own heart free.
Okay, so now I am saying you are lying, your are lying to your friends, your family, your closest loved ones. Are you blooming mad yet? You should be, you should be mad enough now that come hell or high water you are going to find the truth for you! The truth that sets your heart free from the turmoil that you find yourself in from time to time. Because that is your clue, my sweet and wonderful friend.
In my last blog post, Why should you be satisfied with only sometimes being happy?, I was talking about having this piece inside of me that made me push myself to find the truth that was going to make me feel good about living the life I was living. It was not that by looking at me, you would think I had a bad life. Yet, even in that, I was raising children was married and working out of the home sometimes.
What does following your path really mean? It is so often talked about– following our own music, our path, but does anyone really know what that is? I, for one, read so many new age books to try and find the path, the ‘secret’ that was going to set me free from my fear of filling my needs.
As one walks into their new creations and it is a major change in your world, it is sometimes very easy to get lost in the chaos or the breaking of the old mold. Sometimes you may tell yourself to break the mold you have to walk away from everything and everyone that has been in your world. I am here to say you do.
Why does it seem when you think you have a handle on your life, you have a direction and you feel good about the direction you are going and the choices that you are making… that you wake up one day and all holy hell has broken loose in your life?!?
So to make a change in one’s life you do what? You wake up in the morning and say I want to be different? Well maybe, but most of the time it has much more to do with not being happy with choices that we seem to be forced to make.