We must learn how to be our own guardian. We must learn the differences about having expectations about any given life scenario. We have to give up on the idea that someone else makes us have feelings good or bad. We have to give up the idea that there is a good or a bad. We have to learn how to be accountable to ourselves without guilt and or obligation to ourselves or others.We must learn to question ourselves in a way that sets us free and apart from our old beliefs and opinions that are of the physical world.
As I have said before, it will take discipline in the beginning to stop ourselves from being in the blame game. My clients and students and I spend much time right here. I do not like going past this place and understanding until they have gotten familiar with this concept.
This is why I suggest journaling, listen to your self talk, be very hard on yourself in the beginning. You want to hear where you sit on any subject. Where is your opinion on any subject. You must come into this with an open mind. As though you are a brand new baby.
Now we have to start looking at what a true feeling is. That will put us in a state of total UN-knowing. This is a place where many people do not give themselves the time to re-establish with themselves a true relationship with self.
So, I was speaking about The Universal Law of Cause and Effect. I would like to put something in right here. We are getting feelings and thoughts mixed up. We are trying to think ourselves into a feeling and we are getting back a whole lot of heartache.
I recently was beginning to discuss how easy it is for someone else to hear where our beliefs are sitting. That is how we started going outside of ourselves for our answers. We would have a person listen to our thoughts and they would simply direct us in a way to absolve the thinking that did not work for us any longer. At some time past, someone began to use it as an easy way to begin having large groups of people be swayed into a thinking other than we are each directed from within ourselves. It even became a “sin” to go within and think for yourself.
I was speaking of being a child and as I am watching them as they first come to our plane of existence here. They have so much to learn. Then they get a Parent instead of a Guardian. You can see it everywhere with so many Mothers and Fathers.